This is so true! As a black woman, my white ex's treated me like garbage! They successfully endeavored to break up our marriage from the start! I heard his brother tell him not to marry me on our wedding day. Why? He was jealous and spiteful! His father said, "Aren't you a bit old to be getting pregnant?" The list goes on to the racist commentsntary. I latter found out he was Covert narcissist and racist himself! If we hadn't left, the relationship would have ended much sooner. In hindsight, that would have been better for me. All that to say the US is a cesspool of hatred and division in many ways but racially it is the most inhuman!